Category: Love + Sex
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We’re getting a little old for all of the drama and debate, so I’m gonna give it to you like this: -A man that is intentional and in true love does not mind providing and protecting, without having to be begged. -An intentional woman who is in love does not ask for much, and her…
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Lately I’ve been extremely lonely. It’s a recurring theme in my life. Whether the separation is by life or by choice, I’m always, always lonely. This loneliness extends only to romanticism. I’m grateful to all of my friends and family for fulfilling me daily, I’m grateful to myself for showing up for myself. I’m grateful…
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There hasn’t been an experience on this earth that has turned me off of love, yet. I mean, think about it- it’s only rational to remain hopeful even after hurting, because what ends up hurting us isn’t love itself. It’s the pursuit of it; the emotions that come with the things we encounter that aren’t…
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There’s one particular reason I like to be out when it’s getting warm… people gazing. And no, not like Joe Goldberg… It’s more like sonder. I’m easily encapsulated by others’ stories that I don’t yet know, and probably never will. It’s a sad thought for a second, until a few new people pass by and…
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Love involves desire… but intentional love knows how to quell it. When we move out of desire we deny the more disciplined, healed versions of our most loving selves. Desire is parallel with impulse in lesser disciplined individuals. Intention is shown through love languages like quality time and acts of service. If your person lines…
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(Photo by youareluminous on IG) I read a quote this morning that really resonated with me… it said, “integrate your shadow, or you’ll end up dating it”. Because I’m me, the first thing I did was Google search “integrate” though I know fully well what it means. I have to confirm though, always. The definition…
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I- … No shade, but I thought we all knew this at this big age. The dating pool is pure piss at this point and the bar is in the uttermost pit of hell. What happened to our standards? What happened to courting? What happened to fun dates, interest in character and bonds not layered…
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Just for a moment, try to imagine your life without sex. Can you do it? Be honest… Yeah, me neither. Sex is such a sacred union, a bonding of souls, something so deep that it can only be described as revered. That’s the problem. As humans, we center parts of our world around it: getting…
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Every lover girl needs a friend that gets the ick easily. Hear me out- the duo balances each other out. When your nature is to give love regardless of the vessel or return, it helps to have a discerning eye to help direct that love. There’s nothing wrong with deciding who is worthy of the…
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